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Find out how much cash to put in the card or honeymoon fund for a 2026 UK (£) or US ($) wedding, tailored to how close you are to the couple, whether you are invited for the full day or evening, and what you are spending on travel.
How We Calculate Your Suggested Gift
Forget the outdated cover-your-plate myth. Modern wedding gift etiquette in both the United Kingdom and the United States comes down to four practical factors.
Frequently Asked Questions
2026 Wedding Gift Etiquette Q&A
How much money should you give for a wedding gift in the UK in 2026?
In 2026, most UK daytime wedding guests give between £50 and £150 per person, with £75 to £100 being the comfortable average for a good friend or relative. Evening-only guests typically give £25 to £50, while couples attending a full day together usually give £120 to £150 in a joint card.
How much cash should you give at a US wedding in 2026?
For US weddings in 2026, the standard cash gift ranges from $75 to $200 per guest. Coworkers and distant friends typically give $50 to $75, good friends and cousins give $100 to $150, and close friends or siblings give $150 to $200+.
Do couples attending together need to give double the wedding gift?
No. Two adults attending as a couple gift as a household rather than two separate individuals. A good rule of thumb is roughly 1.5 times the single-guest amount (for example, £120 to £150 in the UK or $150 to $225 in the US) inside a single card.
Should you give less if you are travelling or paying for a hotel?
Yes. When attending requires overnight hotel rooms, train fares, or flights, couples understand that your attendance already involves significant expense. Scaling your cash gift down by 15% to 20% for domestic overnight travel, or giving a modest £30 to £50 ($50 to $75) token gift for a destination wedding abroad, is widely accepted.
How do you give money as a wedding gift?
If the couple has set up an online honeymoon fund or cash registry on their wedding website, contributing digitally before the wedding day is the safest and easiest option. If you prefer giving physical cash, place crisp banknotes inside a handwritten wedding card and drop it into the venue's card box at the reception.
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